tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post539532665047649585..comments2023-06-25T04:10:55.573-04:00Comments on Demand EUPHORIA: Three Bad Reasons To Hit ChildrenVickie@Demand_Euphoriahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17706946767924290485noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-1234230819670216012011-09-24T12:03:19.789-04:002011-09-24T12:03:19.789-04:00I always find the "It happened to me and I su...I always find the "It happened to me and I survived" or "I turned out ok" excuse to be the worst. You never hear, "I was molested and I turned out ok, so I should molest my kids too!"Marynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-82854213061306027622011-08-07T09:21:03.103-04:002011-08-07T09:21:03.103-04:00@nursinmamaa, Biting is a tough issue. If he is do...@nursinmamaa, Biting is a tough issue. If he is doing it that much, it means he has a strong need to bite. In that case, maybe you could offer him lots of different things he CAN bite. You might play a game with him where you have many different items of different textures (soft, hard, different levels of squishy, etc). Let him play out his need to bite on non-human objects.<br /><br />Try to find out a favorite thing for him to bite, so you can offer that to him when he gets heated and you can see he is about to bite a person.<br /><br />How old is he? Does he use a pacifier?Vickie@Demand_Euphoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17706946767924290485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-61401348728741813122011-08-04T14:10:03.116-04:002011-08-04T14:10:03.116-04:00You can see and download a PDF of Dr. Elizabeth Ge...You can see and download a PDF of Dr. Elizabeth Gershoff's comprehensive 57 page report,"Report on Physical Punishment in the United States: What Research Tells Us About Its Effects on Children", at the following link:<br /><br />www.phoenixchildrens.com/PDFs/principles_and_practices-of_effective_discipline.pdf<br /><br />A free copy of "Plain Talk About Spanking" is available from PTAVE. Visit www.nospank.net/offer.htmMichael Goldfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16958708369057371497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-15651289826976945402011-08-04T13:46:12.520-04:002011-08-04T13:46:12.520-04:00OK, I get all the no spank and I really try to ref...OK, I get all the no spank and I really try to refrain from doing so, So - how do I stop a biter? Bites when provoked, bites for what appears to be no reason, bites when tired. He likes to bite. Help!Lady Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11704897964781718590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-30133612888926589122011-06-02T08:22:49.846-04:002011-06-02T08:22:49.846-04:00@Hollie, Thanks for the comment. I just responded ...@Hollie, Thanks for the comment. I just responded to your other one. I basically said the same thing as you are saying here, which is, If you start out thinking you will never do it, then you will be more motivated to figure out a different solution. :)Vickie@Demand_Euphoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17706946767924290485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-33314600376640878262011-06-01T09:06:03.557-04:002011-06-01T09:06:03.557-04:00I posted on the other page and know I will be deem...I posted on the other page and know I will be deemed horrible, but just to clarify for those who might agree or even disagree: I agree with all of this. My opinion previously shared applies to me and my family, not in reference to others, and "last resort" is literal, whereby it's a thought out and purposeful discipline, not executed as a reflex. One that I hope to never use, and may never since I work at not doing it more than figuring out how to ;)Hollienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-68059026272932692882011-05-25T06:52:23.566-04:002011-05-25T06:52:23.566-04:00Thanks Dulce!Thanks Dulce!Vickie@Demand_Euphoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17706946767924290485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5088188498900558941.post-68973949193283084202011-05-24T09:13:51.807-04:002011-05-24T09:13:51.807-04:00Excellent, as always! Thank you so much for your ...Excellent, as always! Thank you so much for your inspiring posts. <3dulce de lechehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01641970264436339191noreply@blogger.com